Lace up your work boots, my child.

I get that you didn't want to talk about that particular subject- 
But you will behave so that the other child in the conversation feels valued. 

I understand that you feel like your idea was better-
But the other child felt the same way. 

It makes sense that you were tired and short on patience-
But I will insist that you learn to manage yourself through discomfort. 

I know that you felt misunderstood-
But you do not get to stomp all over the rest of us. 

Life is hard at times, my little buddy... 
But I will not run ahead of you and smooth your road. 
Rather, I will teach you how to lace up your work boots and will walk beside you. 

I love you, 
Mom